Dating for Dummies
In his book The Language Instict, Steven Pinker makes the point that humans are so innately hardwired for language that they can no more supress their ability to learn and use language than they can suppress the instinct to pull a hand back from a hot surface. We are remarkably sophisticated when it comes to distinguishing words that persuade and words that repel.
Imagine asking someone out on a date by saying:
I hereby request your attendance at a film or other comparable activity in a public social setting as arranged by mutual agreement. Should the request be granted, I will accept financial liability for the evening’s activities to the amount of a reasonable sum that would normally be incurred during such activities. The purpose of the proposed social activity is to ascertain mutual compatibility for further social interactions and possible sexual activity, as mutually agreed upon by both parties. If the request is granted, neither party is under any obligation to engage in further social interactions, nor to engage in sexual activity at the conclusion of the proposed social activity.
What are the odds of someone accepting this proposal? Very low I suggest.
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